As the National Grange Master/President, every now
and then I am quoted on a topic for a news release, by the media, or I write a
blog or article. Often it draws no comment and one wonders if anyone reads it.
Occasionally, it draws a bit of opposition and support and people send comments
or emails to me.
It is a fact that people who like something send in
their comments in far fewer numbers than those who dislike something you have
said. What is interesting is how few opposing comments are civil and
respectful. Depending upon the topic, the response normally is an attack on my
intelligence, a questioning of my values, an accusation of partisanship, or the
charge that I’ve abandoned the Grange values.
If criticism of an elected official’s actions or
words is made, their supporters will quickly jump to their defense. If a Grange
policy is promoted that someone disagrees with, then the messenger is wrong.
This gives me more evidence that the highly-charged partisan world we live in
has serious problems.
I believe that the extreme partisanship we see in
many politicians is the result, not of their leadership, but of the intolerance
of their constituents. When we as the people, are not being civil and tolerant,
why would many of our elected representatives choose to be above the fray? And
those who disagree with the disrespectful often find themselves labeled as
extremist simply for a difference in opinion.
When we react to things without thinking, or take
the position that we are right and any differing view is wrong, it is human
nature not to listen. Regardless of if your point of view is partisan or a
specific policy position, the moment you cease to listen to other viewpoints,
your argument is weakened and you cease adding to the discussion.
America and the Grange are supposed to be places where
disagreement is acceptable; where the minority can express themselves and have
a voice; where the majority has its way within our broad structure, yet takes no
rights away from the minority; where each listens to the opinions of all.
The Grange encourages healthy, civil debate among
its members. Discussion of issues and events are done outside the partisan
arena and only our members create Grange policies. We view elected officials as
representing all their constituents, and criticism or accolades are given based
on their actions, not party affiliation.
When our members react in an uncivil “kneejerk”
fashion, we explain why that position was taken. The teaching of Grange philosophy
in the area of civility remains a constant process. New members are often unaware
of this fundamental value and grow to appreciate it. Older members can forget
this value on occasion and be thankful for a gentle reminder.
America needs the Grange philosophy of civility and
respect for all. Our doors are open to any wishing to explore this
old-fashioned idea. As our members say throughout the country, “Welcome to the
Grange!”